What I Want to See More of in Porn

From a cishet mixed Latina

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This is a personal list, and I’m speaking mainly about hetero porn here. I cannot speak for other women, but the current selection, for me, is lacking.

Not lacking as in there’s not enough to watch, but there’s a super super small amount of porn that is actually arousing to me. Most of it makes me want to wince (or laugh outright).

And I am treated like a subset. A category. Oh, here girls, this is the section for you. Romantic massages, right? Lots and lots of oil until a dude decides to dip it in? Here are a few thousand of that exact same video.

Sigh.

1. Threesomes (or foursomes) that involve more than one man, and aren’t horrifically violent. Can we please have eight dudes actually pleasuring one woman? Maybe they don’t even have to put their dicks in her. They can literally just, you know, pleasure her. Take direction from her. Make it 100% about her. Where are those videos?
2. Better quality pussy-licking. No more grainy videos. I want high-def.
3. Fingering, not fish-hooking. Part of what took me so long to find my G-spot was the belief that I had to violently fish-hook my vagina to get it, and that was not an appealing idea to me. If these people claim to like vaginas so much, be nice to…