gotta disagree with you on this one -- many times a woman can receive nice things even if she's not conventionally attractive, but there's a polite way to go about it, which isn't ordering a ton of food straight away. at my absolute hottest I was not treated all that well bc I tolerated BS, but now, my standards are higher even tho im heavier, I do get treated better. there are a lot of factors, a lot of it is just what are you willing to put up with in terms of boundaries and doesn't have to do with looks. a woman shouldn't have to put up with a man not committing just because she's bigger, or settle just because he says "you don't look like a model"... that guy also needs to go after date 1.