anyone always has the right to change their mind. The important thing is you’re not pressuring someone to change their mind. That’s what makes someone a shitty person. Just because she changed her mind later doesn’t mean her feelings about it weren’t just as valid when she was with you. Sorry that’s a hard pill to swallow, but think about a time in your life where you changed your mind about something…does that mean you secretly wanted it before? No. People change. The important thing is that you’re not trying to manipulate that change